Fear of Change

Is there anyone out there that doesn’t fear change? To me, change is most definitely a love and hate relationship. When diving into a place that is scary, some people just put on their big kid pants and get it done, but there are so many of us who struggle to get past the fear. Or how about the few of us who do accept change, and we change ourselves only to be ridiculed.

You’ve noticed those toxic people that are waiting for you to screw up. These people only want you to fail because of their own insecurities. You know them, the “I told you so” people. Those jealous ones that love sharing their misery. They want to pull you, drag you, sweet talk you, anything to have you back in the black hole they choose to call home. Do not pay any attention to what they are saying.

Change is inconvenient. When change comes it often begins with very hard deliberate work. Truly, good things don’t always come easily to most people, and more than not, change does take time and hard work, but the reward can be so fulfilling.

Most people won’t change because they’re afraid of the unknown. They want things to be laid out for them so everything goes perfectly with no surprises. “You got to let go of certainty in your life and be willing to venture into the unknown and walk into it, being okay that you will be vulnerable, being okay that you will be scared, being okay you’re going to have nights where you’re lying awake going,. “I don’t know. I don’t know.”” ~ Brendon Burchard.

If you are willing to take the bumps and bruises along the way, you too will figure out that change is not your enemy. You can make it work. Live a fulfilling life. Keep faith in yourself. Put in the work. Embrace the process. Begin today and follow what you know in your heart. What is the right thing to do, for you. You can do this. You will do this!!

“Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here.” ~ Marianne Williamson

Peace & Love 🕊❤️
Lynn